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Apr 30, 2013Physicians debate whether patients need to know they’re dying

By Melissa Healy, Los Angeles Times
April 25, 2013

In the days when American physicians dispensed oracular commands and their judgments were rarely questioned, a doctor could take it upon himself with few ethical qualms to keep from a patient the bad news of a terminal diagnosis.

For better or worse, those days may be well behind us. But physicians have not ceased debating one of the stickiest and most universal ethical quandaries of medical practice: How, when and why does one inform a patient that he or she is dying? The latest evidence of that ongoing discussion was published Wednesday in the British Medical Journal.

The latest question in the journal’s “Head to Head” feature, “Do patients need to know they are terminally ill?,” essentially pits one side’s reasonable arguments that “we’re all dying” and “you never really know when and of what a patient will die” against another side’s equally compelling assertions that “knowledge allows better decisions” and “a patient can still have hope — to live to see a daughter married or achieve a cherished goal or to die a peaceful death at home.”

Either way, the two sides in BMJ’s debate appear to converge on one key rule: Patients whose lives will probably be limited or ended by a disease deserve a forthright explanation of what treatment is available and what it probably would, and would not, accomplish if undertaken. Given that this is a matter of consensus, the difference seems to come down to how forcefully a doctor should press the point when a patient seems unwilling to face the realities of his or her diagnosis.

The debate is a sign of the times. The authors on both sides of the BMJ debate — yes, a patient needs to know he is terminally ill, and, no, she does not — are palliative care specialists: Often flanked by social workers and nurses and pastoral caregivers, these physicians work to maximize the “quality of life” of seriously ill patients. As this new medical specialty gains a foothold in hospitals throughout the United States, it has brought a new focus on the value of caring for, not curing, patients with life-limiting chronic illnesses (including diagnoses such as cancer, emphysema, heart failure and complicated diabetes).

Because many in palliative care come from the hospice movement or are affiliated with hospice as well, these specialists tend to be on good terms with the reality that all patients eventually die. But they also know that many patients may have a good deal of life left to live. Hence, the debate over telling patients they are terminally ill.

Many palliative care doctors are firmly convinced that when patients know that cure is no longer possible, they will generally choose to forgo costly and invasive tests and procedures, make the best of the time they have left and eventually die in the peace and comfort of their homes, which is what most Americans at least say they want. By this logic, ensuring the patient knows she has a terminal illness is the first step in seeing that her wishes will be honored and the quality of her life remaining will be maximized.

“Knowledge is power,” write Drs. Emily Collis and Katherine E. Sleeman, both palliative care specialists in Britain’s National Health System.

But other palliative care physicians focus on the surprising finding that “terminal” patients actually live longer, on average, when they get palliative care, possibly because they get off the risky and intensive “curative treatment” treadmill and focus on comfort and quality of life. By this logic, it may be more important to tend to a patient’s comfort than to jam down her throat false certainties about the time or cause of her eventual death.

“Does telling someone that they are terminally ill mean telling the how long they have to live? (hard to know for any individual),” writes Dr. Leslie J. Blackhall, a palliative care specialist at the University of Virginia School of Medicine. “Does it mean telling them that they will eventually die (true for all of us)? Does it mean telling them there is ‘nothing we can do’ (never true)?” Blackhall writes. And at exactly what point in a protracted illness for which there is little prospect of a cure does a physician declare a patient “terminal,” she wonders.

It may surprise readers to know that in Britain’s healthcare system, the physicians’ regulatory body tells doctors that “information should be withheld from terminally ill patients only if it is thought that giving information will cause serious harm, specified as ‘more than becoming upset.’”

To read more about palliative care, check out “The Promise and Pitfalls of Palliative Care.” And to read a recent Times article about how Americans die, check out “Quiet Deaths Don’t Come Easy.”

Jan 2, 2013Let’s Talk About Dying

by Lillian B. Rubin
Salon
December 26, 2012

“It’s better than the alternative, isn’t it?” Words spoken repeatedly when, during the course of a research project on aging, I asked people for their thoughts about the new longevity and their own aging. Sometimes it was said with a shrug of resignation, more often as an unquestioning statement – a certainty that living is better than dying. Each time I heard it, I wanted to ask, “Is it?” Often I gave in to the impulse, which almost always begot a confused and startled response: “You mean you think it’s better to die?”

I’ve thought about that question many times in the years since then, and my answer today is an even more resonant, “Yes.” It isn’t that I’m so eager to die, but I can’t help thinking about how destructive our fear of death is — how it compels us to live, even when “living” may be little more than breathing; how we have made living, just to be alive, the unqualified objective. For me, that’s quite simply not enough. No, that’s not right. It isn’t “simple” at all. But I do have a concrete plan to end my life when I decide it’s time – and the tools to implement it. Will I have the courage to do it?

I can almost hear some people shout, “Courage? Suicide is cowardice, not courage.” To which I can only ask: Does it take courage to live as my now-deceased husband did — a 10-year slide into increasing dementia, so that by the time he died, from a fall that cracked his ribs and led to pneumonia, there was nothing left but a body that needed constant care? Couldn’t we just as easily call it cowardice?

At 88-going-on-89 and not in great health, what’s cowardly about my deciding to turn out the lights before putting my family through the same pain they’ve already lived through with their father and grandfather? What’s courageous about spending our children’s inheritance just so we can live one more month, one more year? Is it courage or cowardice to insist on staying alive at enormous social cost – 27.4 percent of the Medicare budget spent in the last year of life – while so many children in our nation go hungry and without medical care? Is it cowardice to decide not to live with the pain of an ever-diminishing self — a body that’s always reminding us it’s there, a mind that forgets what it wants us to remember?

I ask my doctor to give me a prescription for pills that will make my death easy. He thinks about it, and then with a look I can’t read — sheepishness? regret? – he says, “Sorry, I can’t do it.” Yes, I know there’s a law in California, as in most of the country, against assisted suicide. But when I push him, that’s not the reason he gives. Instead he tells me he’s spent his life saving lives, not taking them. I ask, “Did you ever wonder whether you were doing your patient a favor?” He sidesteps the question, and says, “Well, I don’t think you’re sick enough to die.” How does he know what’s “sick enough,” what it feels like to live in my failing body and mind? More

Oct 4, 2012Bringing Palliative Care Into the Conversation

by Dana Sitar
Seven Ponds
October 4, 2012

California State University is tackling a shortage in palliative care workers by launching the first statewide educational and workforce development initiative dedicated specifically to palliative care. With an aging population and an increase in the number of people living with serious illness, health care systems are facing the challenge of providing the care our population needs, and the CSU Institute for Palliative Care will help overcome that challenge.

“Our aging society requires a qualified palliative care workforce that can support people’s desire for quality of life, independence, and choice and control in their health care decisions,” said Joseph Prevratil, CEO and President of Archstone Foundation, which provided initial grant funding for the Institute, along with California HealthCare Foundation.

The CSU Institute for Palliative Care at CSU-San Marcos will offer palliative care training for professionals, and it will educate the public about the value of palliative care and how to access it. This public awareness will be invaluable to those who would benefit from palliative care but know so little about it. More

Aug 23, 2012Calif. man, 88, won’t be charged with assisting in suicide of ailing wife

By NBC News staff and wire
NBC News
August 23, 2012

An 88-year-old man who was arrested shortly after the death of his ailing wife on suspicion of aiding in her suicide will not be charged with any crime.

San Diego prosecutors determined that the case against Alan Purdy couldn’t be proven beyond a reasonable doubt, said Tanya Sierra, a spokeswoman for the district attorney, on Wednesday night.

Margaret Purdy, 84, was found dead in her home with a plastic bag over her head in March, her death ruled a suicide by the county medical examiner. Family said she had becoming increasingly depressed as she battled a series of ailments and injuries in her final years while her husband doted on her.

“She had mentioned for some time that she was under a great deal of pain and that this was a very hard life,”  the couple’s son-in-law, John Muster, said in a telephone interview from Berkeley at the time of the arrest.

The once vibrant woman left a suicide note on her desk after being bedridden in her final years from severe pancreatitis, as well as an autoimmune disease, a crumbling spine and three fractured vertebrae that never healed, The Los Angeles Times reported.

Alan Purdy’s sister-in-law, Margot Smith, told The Associated Press Wednesday that it would have been awful if prosecutors had decided to pursue a case.

“I’m absolutely delighted to hear it. He’s 88 years old and hard of hearing and he loved his wife dearly,” Smith said.

Smith added that Alan Purdy was so hard of hearing that he had trouble making out what authorities were saying to him at the time of his arrest.

“I’m delighted to hear this,” Purdy’s daughter, Catherine Purdy, a Berkeley psychologist, told The Times. “I feel like justice has finally happened.”

The Purdys were close friends for many years and proved a perfect match when they married later in life, relatives said. It was the second marriage for both Purdys, each of whom had outlived their previous spouses, said The Times. Margaret Purdy kept a close eye on her husband, who lost much of his hearing with age. He, in turn, watched after her as she coped with her ailments.

A previous suicide attempt
In Margaret Purdy’s last year of life, her pain became so severe that she was unable to get out of bed without Alan’s help, and she stopped doing activities that she enjoyed, like painting, The Times reported in May. Three months before her death, when Alan was out of the house, Margaret had attempted to take her life by poisoning herself with carbon monoxide in their garage; Alan came home and pulled her out of the car before she could finish, The Times said.

Alan Purdy, a pilot with a doctorate in biomedical engineering, worked for years at the federal Occupational Safety and Health Administration, and Muster said both were “fully functioning mentally.”

When paramedics arrived at their home on March 20, Purdy told them his wife had taken 30 sleeping pills crushed in applesauce, then suffocated herself, The Times reported. He told them — and later deputies — that he didn’t help her, but he also said he didn’t try to stop her.

From the bedroom that he and Margaret shared for nearly 15 years, Purdy admitted to The Times, ”Yes, I sat beside her as she died. I didn’t want her to feel abandoned. I wanted her to know that I loved her.”

There is no specific federal law regarding either euthanasia or assisted suicide. All 50 states and the District of Columbia prohibit euthanasia — which is when a doctor actively kills a patient — under general homicide laws.

California is one of three dozen states that have specific laws prohibiting assisted suicides. Seven ban assisted suicide under common law.

 

Aug 23, 2012Husband won’t be charged in wife’s suicide

By Tony Perry
Los Angeles Times
August 23, 2012

Criminal charges will not be filed against an 88-year-old San Marcos man who sat beside his ailing wife as she committed suicide, the San Diego County district attorney’s office announced Wednesday.

After a thorough review, the office decided that it could not meet “the ethical and legal burden” of proving a charge of “assisted suicide” against Alan Purdy, according to a spokesman for Dist. Atty. Bonnie Dumanis.

“We do not discuss the reasons when we don’t file criminal charges,” spokesman Steve Walker said, “other than [to say that] we only file when we believe we can prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt.”

On March 20, Purdy’s wife, Margaret, 84, committed suicide after years of unrelenting pain from a variety of ailments. The couple were married for 15 years.

Purdy, a semiretired engineer, did not try to stop his wife as she swallowed apple sauce mixed with sleeping pills and put a plastic bag over her head.

“Yes, I sat beside her as she died,” Purdy told The Times weeks after the death. “I didn’t want her to feel abandoned. I wanted her to know that I loved her.”

Purdy’s children and his wife’s children from a previous marriage were opposed to criminal charges being filed.

“I’m delighted to hear this,” said Purdy’s daughter Catherine Purdy, a Berkeley psychologist, when informed of the district attorney’s decision. “I feel like justice has finally happened.”

Her father, Catherine Purdy said, “is very lonesome and unhappy. He lost his wife, and then to have to wait for this decision — it’s been very hard on him.”

A rarely enforced California law from the 19th century says that anyone who “deliberately aids, or advises, or encourages another to commit suicide” is guilty of a felony. Unlike several other states, California does not have a law that permits physician-assisted suicide.

Once a vibrant woman who enjoyed traveling and painting, Margaret Purdy was bedridden in her final years from severe pancreatitis, an autoimmune disease, from a crumbling spine, and from three fractured vertebrae that never healed properly. She left a suicide note on her desk.

Alan Purdy was arrested even before the medical examiner removed his wife’s body from the couple’s home. But at an arraignment in March, the district attorney said that the case was under review.

“This is a great relief, of course,” Purdy said of the district attorney’s decision ultimately to not file charges. He said he grieves daily for his wife but said that he’s “definitely happy [the district attorney's office] made this right decision.”